Em recently posted some defaming comments on her blog. And to illustrate that yes she truly finds me incompetent in meeting new people, I will recount a recent encounter she had meeting a coworker of mine. My female co-residents and male co-resident's wives and a visiting student got together the other night to watch an old movie (not the point). This new student told me afterward 'Your wife is so cute. She is wonderful. When she introduced herself she said "Whatever he's done, whatever he's said I am sorry.'" So my "cute" "wonderful" wife is so afraid of my social skills, in which class I got an A in in 8th grade!, that she immediately apologizes for any misbehavior. Allison, the student quickly reaffirmed how cool and nice and fun I am, so there!!!